Want to know how to ask a girl out on the phone? After asking so many girls out I figured out several things to do to guarantee the date.
One simple phrase in particular made a HUGE difference but first things first.
Before you use this phrase:
ALWAYS! ALWAYS! ALWAYS! Do this when you ask a girl out.
I like to call between 8 & 9pm, Sunday through Thursday.
I call at about 8 to 9pm because she’ll usually be done with dinner and just be relaxing. If you call earlier, she may still be busy and if you call later, she may already be asleep.
I never call a new girl on Friday or Saturday. I’m always doing something with friends and even though I’m sure I could take a few minutes to make a call I don’t.
If you call on a Friday or Saturday it can look like you don’t have much going on in your life and you don’t want to portray that. Soooo it’s best to stick with Sunday through Thursday for calls.
OK – Toward the end of the conversation you’ll want to ask her out.
Most guys ask a girl out by asking if she’d like to meet up on a certain day. That’s ok, right? I mean if the conversation was going well she’ll say yes. Well, what if she’s actually busy on the night you ask her out?
Guy: Hey, how about we meet up on Tuesday? What time is good for you?
Girl: Sorry , I can’t Tuesday. I’m meeting my girlfriends for dinner.
Guy: Ohh, No prob. How about Wednesday?
Girl: I can’t Wednesday either, I have yoga on Wednesdays.
She’s already said no twice. This isn’t good. You start to look needy and it definitely doesn’t come off as smooth.
How can you keep this from happening without being a psychic and knowing what she’s doing in the future?
Get ready for this!
What’s your schedule look like this week?
Yup, That’s it! Simple right.
This is what the conversation would look like when you get to the point to ask her out:
You: Hey, So what’s your schedule look like this week?
Girl: I’m busy Tuesday and Wednesday but I’m free on Thursday.
You: Ok, cool – How about we meet up Thursday at 8pm at The News Lounge.
Girl: That sounds great.
You see how much more smooth that is!!?
Successful people ask better questions, and as a result, they get better answers.
One other thing I want to point out here is how I named the time and place. Girls like it when a guy is a guy. Be a decisive mature masculine man. When you make a decision you are more alive and she’ll feel it.
Don’t do this:
Guy: “Hey, So what’s your schedule look like this week?”
Girl: “I’m busy Tuesday and Wednesday but I’m free on Thursday.”
Guy: “Ok, cool – Thursday it is. Where would you like to go?”
Girls hate that! She’s thinking, “You’re the guy, make a decision, you tell me where you want to meet.” By not making a decision you come off as less of a man, less full of life. If seems like a small thing but it’s a big deal. So be prepared and name the place & time.
Ok that’s it. So remember:
1. What’s your schedule look like?
2. Be decisive, know the time & place.
Go back to the 7 Steps to an Awesome First Phone Conversation.