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10 Top Online Dating Profile Examples & Why They’re Successfull

Online Dating Profile Examples

Online Dating Profile Examples

Not sure how to write your online dating profile? These 10 top online dating profile examples will help.

Most guys get terrible results online. One reason is because their profile reads like a boring, dating profile shaped turd.

That’s right, D-O-O-K-I-E…. the smelly kind.

How can you keep this from happening to you?

What you get on this page:

  • The 10 best dating profile examples for men
  • A girls’ perspective telling you what she likes about each of these profiles (and what she doesn’t)
  • Then I personally do a critique of these profiles to show you what they did wrong and how they can be improved.

So get ready! If you’re writers block was the Death Star then these examples are Photon Torpedos!


Self Deprecating & Funny Dating Profile Example

Funny Dating Profile Example

Ok… so let’s start:

I’d like first to apologize for the typos I might have… I must confess I’m French (I know… nobody’s perfect) and I’m pretty much new in this country (I’ve been around for 2 years).

I thought I would throw some keywords that would describe what I like to do. If you recognize yourself in some of them, I think it might be worth taking the time to keep on reading my profile. If you don’t keep on reading, I swear I won’t be upset with you. I will never know anyway 🙂

Travel, surprises, music, dancing, sports, books, last minute plans, open mind, photography, museum, craziness, spontaneity, going out (but also staying in), sharing, simplicity, respect, flip flops (yes, the sandals), down to earth (however fantasy is also very important), people, casual, word, news, work, sense of humor about yourself, awareness.

And yet another short list of things that I’m not really fond of:
– Cars (can’t tell why I put this one first…)
– Self-centered people (but, hey… Have you already heard anybody saying “yes, yes, I am definitely self-centered.” So this one doesn’t really count!!)
– TV (even if I like one or two shows and some movies)
– Excessive work out / complete body addiction
– Superficial people (but same problem as #2…)

In addition, if you happen to pronounce the following sentences regularly, we’re definitely increasing the chance of a good match here:
“Ok let’s give it a try”
“To be honest, I don’t know”
“I respect that”
“J’adore les escargots” ok this one doesn’t really count either… 🙂

And last (I promise), if you think that Paris is the most beautiful city in the world, I think you should tell our parents to get ready for the wedding 🙂

I am crazy, stupid, and charming.

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Girls Perspective

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Masculine With a Sense of Humor Dating Profile Example

Masculine Dating Profile Example



I live by myself, I pay my own rent, I wear socks that match and I love my mom. I am a confident, attractive & comedic person.

I do stunt work. Have you ever seen it in a movie when a hot actor has to reveal his naked ass? That’s my job. Oh, and I’m in the fitness biz, as well as back in school finishing up my pre-med reqs.

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• Friends
• Food
• That’s none of your business 😉

On a typical Friday night I am: Trying to figure out the major and minor products when 1-bromo-2-propene reacts with potassium tert-butoxide. Either that or partying like a rock star.

The most private thing I am willing to admit: I wear a special cologne. It’s called Sex Panther by Odeon. It’s illegal in nine countries…and it’s made with bits of real panther, so you know it’s good.

You should message me if you are:

Sexy, smart, fit and fun. I don’t think that’s too much to ask…lol.

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Adventurous & Confident Dating Profile Example

Confident Profile Example



Removed – Top Secret – Why?


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Intelligent and Witty Dating Profile Example

Witty Dating Profile Example




Basically I love life and I love living life. I enjoy the outdoors, traveling, restaurants, laughing, goIng to cultural events, and sociaLizing with quality peOple. Its just better liVing and sharing lifE with someone else 🙂

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If you’d like to know more Say “hi”. I didn’t reveAl a lot about my Self for you to read on purpose. Rather we chat, talk, engage in conversation to get to know each other instead of us reading through a long page in this section about each other. Also, just because someone lookS like a good match “on paper”, doesn’t necessarilY translate in reality.

Note: The bold letters are an anagram message.

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Nerdy Romantic (That is not overly mushy) Dating Profile Example

Nerdy Dating Profile Example

1. The boldest thing that I have ever done has to do with my first internet date—she lived in Romania and I flew there to meet her (I was entirely convinced that she was my soul mate… (I was young). Anyway it was really a triple whammy on boldness, because of my fear of flying, traveling to a new country solo and first date jitters all rolled into one. What about you?

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5. I was taught Reiki in Romania, where I lived for two years. Avoided being bitten by vampires, but yes, they do have them there.

6. I am addicted to rock, ’cause I am a climber. Sometimes when I walk by a brick building I will stop and fondle the wall, it reminds me of rock, I have a subconscious urge to climb it… if your a climber you will know what I mean, and if not… I’ll take you climbing a few times and you will be doing it too.

7. Decaf

8. Pancakes

9. I would rather be a rock star then a movie star. My personal theory on music, is that it is just pure, emotional communication, have you ever listened to a song in another language but still understood on an emotional level, what the song was trying to express? Music can bring emotions out in us and bring us back to emotions that we felt in the past… it’s a talent that I wish I had, and emotions are really the most addictive chemicals.

10. I believe in the law of attraction, weird random events that seem to unlikely to be merely coincidence happen more frequently then they should. I spent a number of years in my early 20’s road tripping and meditating. I think that thought has an energy which impacts manifest reality and shapes it in very specific ways.

64% Introvert, 36% Extrovert.
Analytical, kinesthetic thinker
The spotlight is not my friend.
Anti-planner, pro spontaneity.
A shy geek and a smooth operator…. that’s approximately me.

11. Tofino is magic, I first learned to surf there.

12. Gym and jogging. Hiking and biking.

13. Scary movies

So what’s next? Send me a message.

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Whimsical and Romantic Dating Profile Example

Romantic Dating Profile Example




I crave what the poet Richard Siken wrote of in “Crush.”
But I understand that love is sometimes more like “you fit into me” by Margaret Atwood.

James Bond is my mentor and The Most Interesting Man in the World is my life coach. A modern day Arthur Rimbaud, if you will.

Recently my best friend paid me this compliment: “you navigate seamlessly between fun and serious, sensual and sexual, romantic and raunchy”. You can get a grasp of what I’m like from my friends prospective from this quote, and the “raunchy” part I hope is more about my sense of humor. Lol.

Six things I could never do without:

  • Great food
  • Music
  • 5 Senses
  • Love
  • Sex
  • Adrenaline

I used to say the ocean/beach, but I’ve since learned that I would give up the beach for some daily spooning. (the hugging kind)

I spend a lot of time thinking about:
When will the world get male birth control pills?
What if the hokey poke is what it’s all about?
How to make more desserts on the BBQ.
If everyone Wang Chungs tonight, what would tomorrow be like?
Or the great debate of green vs red Tabasco, do you want the heat or the flavor?

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Wow! Now THIS is a Great Dating Profile Example

Great Dating Profile  Example




Removed – Top Secret – Why?

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Down-to-Earth Romantic Dating Profile Example

Romantic Dating Profile Example

I go to ye ol’ American Film Institute for screenwriterin’. It’s like summer camp for makin’ movies, so I’m happy about it.

I am a graduate of Colorado State University, where I double-majored in English and Journalism. I sometimes ‘fast’ accidentally, because I forget to eat. Then I get real hungry. And I eat. A lot.

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I have a neglected 12-string-guitar named Calypso, who now only has 10.5 strings, but I like playing her.

I have a banjo who’s in perfect condition, but that’s because I never play him.

I absolutely can’t stand the taste or smell of bananas. They make me nauseous. I’m not a picky eater…Rocky Mountain Oysters, Frog Legs, insects, whatever, I’ll eat it. As long as there’s no banana involved.

Wasteland, by Dan Bern, is the best song of the past 15 years (live version only. The studio version sounds neutered).

I think a lot of maxims are false, including ‘Don’t knock it ’till you’ve tried it’ and ‘fair and balanced’ and ‘Just Do It’ and ‘got milk?’

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You are beautiful, kind, compassionate, intelligent, witty, wonderful, giving, generous, self-assured, modest, humble, outgoing, shy, etc.
Or if you just want to give me something valuable, like eternal wisdom, a free ticket to Paris, or a house.

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Ridiculously Funny Dating Profile Example

Funny Dating Profile Example





I may not be Brad Pitt, but I definitely don’t qualify to be Brad “Spit” neither (smile). Details at 11.

NOW THAT I’VE GOT YOUR ATTENTION…….You’re dealing with the ultimate gentleman/bad boy. No matter what happens, at the end of the day I’ll make you smile, laugh, and wonder, “How come I’ve never met a guy like this before??!!”

I love to listen to smooth jazz music as I relax on my back patio. I love to talk smack when I’m beating someone in a game of pool. I hate it when women are “DROP DEAD GORGEOUS” on the outside and “DROP DEAD GARBAGE” on the inside.

I loooove to sing Luther Vandross songs. Also, I would love to be blessed with the lady of my life. Want to know more??? Well, that can’t happen unless you contact me. Hate playing games??!! Hate being told lies??!! Well, come on…I’M YOUR MAN!!!YOU NEED THIS in your life!!! PEACE & BLESSINGS!!! You still haven’t messaged me yet??!! LET’S GO…CHOP, CHOP!!!! (smile) MAY GOD BLESS YOU INDEED!! I receive messages frequently but I do respond quickly. XOXOXOXO applause:
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I spend a lot of time thinking about: Having sex with Sofia Vergara, Halle Berry, Salma Hayek, and Kim Kardashian {not @ the same time though}. I heard that they are quite fond of me so I figure that’s the least that I could do. AIN’T I SWEET!!!

On a typical Friday night I am:

Doing whatever makes money or makes me smile! If you win my sweepstakes, you will automatically win a chance to do these things with me as well. TICKETS ON SALE NOW!!!

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Kind, Easygoing and Confident Dating Profile Example

Confident Dating Profile Example




I love to live an active life and explore. I am very passionate about helping others and I am currently in the process of putting together a fundraiser to raise money for Cystic Fibrosis by climbing Mt. Rainier. The climb is also being dedicated to one of my patients that I have become very close to who loves adventure and mountains although unfortunately his lung function prevents him from chasing his dreams due to the high altitude.

I am a complete goofball, dorky, and passionate.

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A girl’s gotta have a… sense of style, the ability to run in heels, a spark in her eye, and a killer smile.

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  • Guesthead

    Excellent, articulate, FUNNY, and witty writers.  These guys are all smart and really funny!   

    But as far as dating profiles go….and yes these are all great profiles…..the above profiles are a bit TOO entertaining.  Are these guys “on the go” like this all the time?  24/7 comedy sessions?   A mix of seriousness added in would make these profiles perfect!

    They don’t have quite the intensity and seriousness that profile written by older, more mature and seasoned men (who most likely have survived divorce, are parents, have lived thru life’s huge hurdles and have some emotional baggage–which is a required for anyone over 30).

    Very youthful profiles because, well, these men are young.  

    These guys have revealed very little about who they are, in a sense.  But we do know two things about them…they are wonderful writers with a rich sense of humor and if were looking for a guy to date in this age group, I’d pick one of them!  I bet they would be worth meeting!

    • Radio Wright


      I know the post was a bit long because of the examples so I
      think you may have skipped several awesome profiles. These profiles
      range from #2 very masculine to #5 romantic (& super detailed) to yes, #9 funny.

      You say these profiles reveal very little about themselves. I see a bit of
      mystery as a good thing, no a great thing. What more do you think they should reveal?

      Thanks for your comment.

      • laurie

        i like to know as much as i can about a person…kind of full disclosue…because if that’s who the person is, and you get involved, you’re going to know anyway, so better to know up front. and i like to divulge, in okcupid’s questions section, as much as i can about myself (sometimes with comments to elaborate, sometimes w/humor or sarcasm, to have a voice). thus full disclosure of both helps you hone in on qualities you like and deal breakers you don’t.

        • Mike

          Ok Laurie, but you’re skipping over the fact that you can’t REALLY know anyone until you meet them. The more they disclose, the more you THINK you know about them. But you could meet them and find out they’re completely different than their profile suggests (ie they seem witty and sharp on their profile, but are really boring in person).

        • Dustin

          Sounds like you’re the type of person who wishes to know more so you have reasons to judge more.

          You also seem to be implying that if a guy is a serial killer or a bank robber that he is going to list it in his profile.

          Just go on a date, get some drinks and get to know each other.

          Guys know women are extremely judgemental creatures and will judge everything and anything about a guys profile.

          We keep ourselves a mystery partly because women like that and partly because we are afraid we might say something about ourselves that will make a woman judge us and never even wish to meet us.

          • Radio Wright

            One caveat to this though Dustin is that too many guys are complete pushover pleasers and are scared to mention even the main things they find most important for fear of running off a girl.

            When I stopped trying to please everyone and learned to communicate my main needs without worrying about who I was going to push away, I started attracting the type of women that I really fit with.

            Another issue with playing it safe and trying to cast a wide net is that you force the girl to switch her screening process over to depend more heavily on superficial things like looks, height etc. because so many guys have generic profiles that it can’t be used to tell much of anything at all about the guy.

            I definitely agree with you to keep things mysterious but think getting some core things down are better than being super generic.

            Does that make sense?

        • Adam

          As far as OKCupid goes, guys are much better off answering only really important matching questions because it’s unlikely that women will rate things like “Must like cupcakes” and less central things as very important, so having the wrong answer can only hurt us in the matching algorithm. Not sure how other dating sites do it though.

          Dustin and Mike are spot on. It’s easy to put our foot in our mouths and say the wrong thing regardless of how many right things we say. Best to keep things brief.

          • Radio Wright

            Agree Adam. If it’s a question you could care less about, don’t answer it.

  • Sarawu

    Great profiles! I find most men on match to have redundant and boring profiles, which may or or may not be an indicator of what they will be like in person. Which site are these guys on? Lol and why did you remove the 2 top secret profiles?

    • Radio Wright

      Howdy Sara. Most men DO have boring profiles. We searched 100’s of profiles for a week to find these 10 and even these can be improved!  These guy’s are on & okCupid.

      What happened to the Top Secret profiles? I’m adding them to a free guide to send out to the people that get the Free Pro-Kit. If you’re on the list, I’ll send them to you soon. 🙂

  • Jikay27

    NiceDaing Examples

  • Centerbound2

    these profiles are awful, 

    • Radio Wright

      I love trolls

  • Marcel

    You said, all the intro’s of these profiles a wrong. Can you give some tips or examples, how to have a good profile intro?


    • Radio Wright

      Howdy Marcel – I added a ton of new examples to the Academy Course. I have to keep some things for the Academy Members.

  • marcus

    I posted two profiles with virtually identical, non-descript headlines, listing all the things that had happened to me online (turned into quite a psycho-rant before it was axed!) , one had my real picture (a late 40s male, smart picture) and one a 40+ fashion pic pulled off the web modelling hairstyles. Whilst I got some comments with my own picture complaining how harsh I was being…. the other received 40+ emails the first weekend I posted (some from girls who would have been nailed on vogue models themselves!)……with no pre-browsing beforehand!
    Frankly……. with online dating its 101% in the picture and if your face don’t fit then you can write what you like and if it does fit you can equally write what you like because I proved it in real time…..PERIOD!

    • Radio Wright

      Yo Marcus-

      So your saying a male model got more emails than you did with the same profile. Uhhh – Not sure what you proved there other than male models attract women……. nothing new.

      It TOTALLY matters what you write & the photos you use & the emails you send. You seem really bothered by your online dating results (psyco-rant and all) I bet you have a ton of mistakes in your profile & photos that are hurting your results. (I’ll prove it)

      How about I do a free in-depth video profile critique for you as long as I can show it on my site.

      It’s usually $87.00 but like I said I’ll do it for you for free.

      Let me know.

      UPDATE: Marcus wasn’t down for the challenge. I tried to help him but no dice.

  • Joyce

    So EDoc did you ever find that special girl or are you still looking?


    I loved this article!! Now, can you create the same but for women?? Pretty please wish sugar on top??

  • Nancy

    Dear eDating Doc,
    Thank god for your site.

    First, I’m a 54 year old woman seeking a man. Second, I’ve been on dating sites for only 10 days and already want to cry and cry due to meager, pitiful profiles and some frankly scary pictures. Then, yesterday, I read this really great profile. Cute guy and everything. Finally. But I should have known by the flawless punctuation it couldn’t be real. I did a one-sentence copy/paste into google and boom, busted the guy for plagiarism.

    Please know a few things:
    1) Guys definitely need your help.
    2) It was great to read a smart, funny profile.
    3) But to be perfectly honest, it’s a little disheartening to find the smart/funny setup wasn’t the cute guy at all. Bummer.

    • Radio Wright

      Hey Nancy – It’s funny because while these profiles are good, they have been copied THOUSANDS of times. I single handedly made the “Anchorman” the most quoted movie of all time on okCupid because so many guys copied the #2 profile with the “Anchorman” quote in it. If you search okCupid you’ll see thousands of guys that just copied these profiles word for word and they wonder why they don’t work. lol

    • Bob

      Cute guys can’t have flawless punctuation? I must be breaking the mold.

  • aaron

    I’ve already had a little more success. Not really any responses but much more interest. Maybe I could get some pointers and advice I’d greatly appreciate it. You can use my profile as an example as long as my information isn’t displayed. Again thank you for your advice. Online dating is very intimidating but a useful tool especially when someone like myself find it difficult to say these things in person but much easier and more relaxing with a little buffer. Much appreciated!! Your hard work surely has paid off.

    • Radio Wright

      I sent you an email Aaron. Also check out the eDatingDoc Academy or my free kit if you haven’t yet.

  • DeeDee

    Dear Radio, You are hilarious! Thanks for stepping up to your true calling. I can’t wait to read more. I agree with Nancy … “The men pool online is shallow” especially for young, attractive women 50yrs and up. Thank you and I’ll be talkin’ you up! BTW – Is that a hint of Texan in your voice?

    • Radio Wright

      Thanks Dee – Nah, I’m originally from Mississippi so a bit of a southern accent comes out every now and then… especially after a couple drinks.

    • Sebastian The Boss

      Attention Dee Dee: You complain about the dating pool being low when it comes to guys ?! Lol . Sweetheart , this may sting a bit, but it’s the truth . You my dear , are not a 10 . Put your age and social status aside here for a second . Unless you look like Jennifer Aniston or Cameron Diaz ( with make up ), you are in absolutely no position to complain about guys . Your biggest problem is that you have passed your prime awhile ago .. What irritates me the most is the majority of girls young / cougar age, are not what they appear to be in their online photos . Dee Dee …. Stop playing the ” entitled ” complainer role and be happy that you even get 2-3 emails in your inbox. Don’t get mad , I’m just telling you the harsh reality . I’m not interested, btw as you exceed my age cut off . I know you think I’m an arrogant d bag … And yeah that’s totally cool . Good luck out there . Change your attitude, you’ll get further .

  • Rob

    So you’re the one to blame for all the Anchorman references. That must rank as even more irritating than the oft quoted Marilyn Monroe ‘if you can’t handle me at my worst…blah blah’ quote. God, I just want to pour acid in my eyes every time i see it….!!!!

    • Radio Wright

      Shit Rob! I didn’t think so many guys would just straight up plagiarize these profiles. It’s kinda funny. They are the ones in the dead center of the Mediocrity Bell Curve.

  • Austin

    I can understand how some of these profiles worked and also tell its for the men in there thirties and up what about guys that are younger in college and in their twenties? As a guy I felt my profile was different and creative but I still need more tweaked on it. Advice?

  • Andrea

    I need a new boyfriend!

  • Carl

    I’ve seen so many male profile accounts on different dating websites, are you creating this for them? A lot of them are very similar.

    • Radio Wright

      Hey there Carl-

      That’s because so many guys are just straight up plagiarizing these profiles. It’s kinda funny. They are the ones in the dead center of the Mediocrity Bell Curve.

  • Paloma

    Its hard these days to see a man who listens, cares, and keep to promises.I wish i had someone to share some of my life experiences with..

    • Radio Wright

      Yeah it’s tough for both men and women Paloma-

      The state of relationships is a mess! 50% of marriages end in divorce and of the 50% remaining, 80% report as soul sucking and just getting through life.

      Why is that?

      Society promotes a false view of relationships. Women want what they see in Disney princess movies & romantic comedies while men want a romantic comedy mixed with hardcore XXX videos. (of course I’m generalizing here). There is a breakdown in communication, understanding, what people want & what people need.

      I was once the guy that didn’t care or listen. It was a long process of self discovery that got me to the place of having the amazing relationship that I have today. I couldn’t figure out why I kept having a feeling a needing space and wanting to get away from my girlfriend even though she was awesome.

      I realized that I was scared to discuss my sexual needs because society says they were wrong. And because my needs were never being met, I always felt something was really wrong in my relationships. Society says anything non-monogamous is wrong. Now that I can confidently discuss my needs I found my awesome girlfriend that is on the same page as I am. We are sexually adventurous and have explored things like swinging together. It just feels perfect and we are closer because there is nothing we can’t talk about. Even the taboo topics of non-monogamy.

      Check out this book: Sex at Dawn

      I’m also working on a book that dives deep into this. I want to totally fix this broken state of relationships.

  • Lauren

    You hit the nail on the head…I am finding it very difficult to find a man that will reciprocate. I love men. I want one man in my life for all of those crazy, fun, important reasons. I have had no luck with a man wanting to give as much as he gets.
    Enjoyed the profile reads immensely!

  • dunn2500

    The problem is most people aren’t writers, girls want to read something out of a novel, bestseller, or Hollywood movie,lol….they want to be touched, and moved by their words and floored with their looks ( good luck).Guys just aren’t good writers, but doesn’t mean they’re not funny, witty, exciting or a good match…they’re just not good at putting it down on paper…….I haven’t been on a ton of dates but every single one of em the person is different in real life than they were online….as I am sure I probably was too…..

    I can assure you that once your with a person and involved his self summary writing skills will mean 0 in real life

    All the women out there I am willing to bet 95% of all your ex boyfriends/husbands were horrible writers…but you fell in love with them anyway, imagine that…

    Do you want to fall in love with a computer or a real person?….if we’re dating in 30’s-50’s we all have Lil issues and failures so remember that your on a dating site too…..the person your seeking is in same boat as you!

  • Sebastian The Boss

    Advice For the Ladies : List :

    1: Use real and recent non photoshopped pictures .

    2. Unless you’re a “super model ” or Jennifer Aniston / Cameron Diaz , don’t act like a 10 , when you’re not . Especially to attractive confident men .

    3 . Know that if , you’re lucky , and a man who is successful, attractive and funny , does happen to e-mail you …. ( This may happen once in a blue moon lol ) , what you should do is , not play the ” test him out ” game . Be happy he messaged you .

    4. When you meet a guy in public . Personal hygiene is manditory , if you want him to text you back . Ladies , I think you know what I mean by personal hygiene .

    5. Know that some men, who have an abundance mentality , and know they can and will get younger hotter chicks , won’t tolerate bs , so don’t give it . K sweet peaches ?!

    6. If you’re afraid or insecure of men who are in a higher league socially , red wine and positive attitudes make a big difference . Ladies take note .

    7. On your very first meeting , a real man will not buy you an extravagant dinner …. When he doesn’t know who you are . That has to be earned . If you make it to bf status , yeah possibly .

    8. Many women will argue these facts but when comes right down to it , deep down you all know I’m right . Guys , do not be weak . Call her out on her bs attitude . 🙂

  • Jill

    Sebastien, please stay in your cave, since no self respecting bright, high achieving woman of ANY age or looks would want to the near you. These points are rubbish and smart men know it. Women have to EARN dinner? What century are you living in? I buy my own dinner, and I don’t spend more than 10 seconds with guys that put down women like you do. Wise successful men get that looks aren’t everything. Give the world a gift and stay single.

    • John E

      Jill, It sure sounds like you can’t handle a man with self-respect. All this Sebastian guy is saying is for women to be down to earth and not play mind games and act entitled. And that they shouldn’t expect him to take you to a 5 star restaurant on a first date because why would he spend that sort of money on someone he just met? Only a desperate man trying too hard to impress a woman does that.
      He is just expecting to be treated right by a woman in the same way a woman expects to be treated right by a man. It seems that a man having expectations or standards is a sexist “caveman” but a woman with the standards is a strong empowered woman. Fck off with your double standards.

      • Frank

        I believe that if Sebastian had any form of self respect or just regular respect. He could have very easily chosen different words. The things he said and the way he said them are degrading. Not just to women.

    • Kyle

      Hahaha right on Jill well said!

  • Stefanie

    Sebastian & John

    HAAA!! What a joke you guys are! Seems you can’t handle the truth from confident women, ie, Jill! I’m not sure what book you guys are reading but it goes both ways. Men need to read what you wrote and take heed – it goes both ways! Men can’t handle a confident women, they want someone they can control.

    Guys send emails on the hopes that their beer belly or untrimmed bod will land them a date with a sophisticated confident lady.

    So why don’t you both Fck off with YOUR double standards.

  • Jeff

    I try really hard, damned if I do damned if I don’t women say they want positive but their approach is, Im all that and your not , even though I look better than most of the women I message. I am weary of their excuses not to meet, continue txting etc.. I simply don’t get it , are women just there to make you feel bad ? I tried changing my profile to suit a woman complaining that she didn’t match MY standards, then immediately claimed I was too intense for HER WTF!!!!! Im sick of this crap. Lets get it on or not and stop looking for excuses. If you want someone who matches me in description almost to a tee then why not respond positively and stop the feminazi, inconsistent crazy ass BS !! , I f you say I want a serious relationship then claim someone is too serious, YOU are the NUT ! And scouring profiles for a neg is sickening. You don’t know me, then you judge me, based on a typed description ? Does anyone get 20 percent is the limit of communication via txt ? you need to TALK to get to 40 and MEET to get the other 60 !! So stop making ASSUMPTIONS based on too little information. Im totally disgusted with this crap. Just cuz of a little patch of hair (or not) why do women get to make all the relationship choices > Ive even contacted FAT women who found reasons not to see me. Now thats pathetic. Im in pretty good shape and decent looking , intelligent , friendly, outgoing, caring, ROMANTIC and versatile. But I cant demonstrate that in a TXT very well. I try , but most don’t reply and or find fault . SICK O THE CRAP, And I’m lonely as hell, so I have to PRETEND i have it all together, am hilarious 75 percent of the time, and never have needs of any kind. Otherwise thats too heavy, Bitc*es

    • Shane

      You said it man! I have the same issues I’m going through and it is a game it seems for the very sex that the first sentence in their profile states “I’m sick of games so if your into playing them move the f* on”. It’s a joke! A lot of the time they don’t know what they want. Those are the same ones that will be on the dating site projecting this professional, successful way about themselves and you’ll see them at a local bar with a low life douche so it’s tough out here. They will be the same ones that claim there are no real men left! A joke..

  • M

    And folks, if you just copy and paste any of these, someone will out you. Authenticity is essential, these are great points but should be taken as your own.

  • It doesn't matter

    Oh wow, this has become a sensational thread. I’m a gay guy in Australia, and man, cyber dating pretty much has destroyed responsible/ respectable communication amongst gay men (from my life experience).

    Who actually is getting a date these days – I know I sure as hell ain’t – now & from the last 10 years, and I can see it the world over too with hetro people: it’s the same everywhere. It’s not getting easier; cyber-dating is not the “tool of compatibility convenience” it started out to be.

    Which has given rise to so much advice from online dating coaches/ councillors/ experts/ guru’s; I’ve tried all the various psychology/ reverse psychology/ self-marketing techniques & styles/ re-inventing myself periodically etc etc. At the end of the day, there is only one person you can be and that’s yourself, and that’s who you should be valued for, being you. If no one wants to go on a shared journey together with you, well, that’s become society’s problem.

    Amazingly in various women’s lifestyle journalism, most single career-focused women are the unhappiest, considering themselves extremely deserving of a spouse, yet finding themselves on the cusp of not able to have a man or progeny to validate everything they have accumulated through being career focused all their productive adult life. …I’m tending to think this is becoming the same visa-versa situation for middle aged males too, who have simply “missed the boat”, & are now “left on the shelf, dusty”, no matter how they re-invent themselves & what marketing tools they employ from the wealth of expert sources out there.

    Which is all a real contrast to the Hollywood movies of yesteryear when the lead male actor hero could be 50-60 (eg African Queen; My Fair Lady). Today’s generation probably can’t even relate to such cinema.

    To try & find 1 date that would lead to long term dating, I moved to every capital city of this continent (only eight of them here), over a 10 year period, involving finding sustainable employment & dignified accommodation in the process. In doing so, I was hoping to expand my sphere of date-opportunity, utilising also active online/ cyber-dating profiles. But zip!!! And I’m mean, I’m not exactly fugly!!! I’d go out with me, sexy guy lol. I confess, I’ve had a handful of platonic meets, but that’s it in all that time. I’m so over gay pubs & bars as well. Burk!: who can drink that much alcohol to “look sociable”.

    As a gay man, I’m confronted with exactly what these men say here in this comments thread. Sure, some males (& females) might be “ego-trippers” that people laugh at because their expectations are brazenly narcissistic, yet who will still attract one particular type of tragic personality type (no offence, it’s just a fact). While others simply have no-chance because they compete with the elusive “Mr Fantasy” who doesn’t really exist in today’s real life. It appears in our progressive western culture, there is less & less/ no natural affection or the concept of innocence left in civil society. Expectations are marketed at us of uncompromising civil rights: everyone is suspicious & pre-judged guilty until proven innocent. But with rights come responsibilities, including maturity, forgiveness, compassion etc etc.

    [ I really should be coming back to you with solutions on how to change this, but that’s outside of today’s input folks ]

    Anyhows, that’s my life-experience journey, based on my value system to date. Acknowledged, there are absolute gay male “sl*ts” out there who would have 5 minute stands with your neighbors great great grandfather & even his dog etc etc, probably exactly the same sort of people exist in the hetro world (I really don’t know, I don’t get personally involved in my local hetro’s private worlds thanks to homophobia). But, what I find amazing about this website herewith, is that the instigator, radio “Dr Love”, over 3 or 4 years “discovered” his fettish for sexual promiscuity ie he’s a swinger/ group sex & “all that jazz”, so I tend to question: “is the real reason radio “Dr Love” started this post/ thread ie to lure people to his & his woman’s bedroom??”, lol. I’m sure it’s no different to me sharing my sexual identity as gay – I’m only here to share a perspective & to grow.

    For the record, I’m a monogamous gay man, and I find extra-marital/ licentious promiscuous behaviour of any type [ gross ]. If you’re only after no-strings-attached sex, you should register with “”, and not mess around with those genuinely wanting to date on dedicated dating sites. But that is my opinion, based on my life journey. Just don’t involve me/ keep your diseases to yourself + your polyamorous posse. I’ve seen too many people die of things they should never have caught. My best platonic friend said to me: “you should live a little”. He’s now dead. Coming up to 4 years I think.

    One thing I have learned out of this website & comments thread, is how much I have missed out from not hanging out with hetro men. What a “bro”-buddies hoot!! Man I could do with some straight buddies. I mean, I’ve never heard of phrases like:-

    – “Feminazies”: that so describes the vicious corporate-ladder climbing females I have to suck up to. They get rewarded for their bellicose mannerisms. Wow, they have an unhealthy perspective of being a successful accomplished corporate “male”. No one wants to work with untenable leadership of any sort.

    – “I hate it when women are “DROP DEAD GORGEOUS” on the outside and “DROP DEAD GARBAGE” on the inside”. It’s so true! – even with gay guys you desperately want to date! …Gay male “macho’s” – you all totally suck, over you all!! (I’m allowed to say that cause I’m gay)

    Oh wow, I feel re-invigorated in my 20th century forced-celibate singleness. Enjoy the future as we know it y’all 🙂 , back to “banging my head against a wall”(??!)

  • Brandon

    Man, I’m not an unattractive guy and I don’t have a hard time meeting women in person but online dating is an entire different ballgame. As much as you articulate and finesse your profile with witty comments or soul searching traits, I feel like it is 100% based on your pictures. That being said,I take horrible photos.

    I think ‘selfies’ are gawdy and overdone and as a guy, we don’t necessarily go on oppurtune photo-ops with our buddies like women do. Men are at an inherent disadvantage right from the start whether they’re handsome or not. It’s kind like if a woman isn’t model worthy when she wakes up but after an hour of hair and makeup looks like a dead ringer for Adrianna Lima but for men if we are ugly, we are just ugly lol.

    Not hating on this site at all, I think alot of people appreciate a good template and reference so you’re providing a much needed service.

    • Radio Wright

      Your online dating success does not 100% depend on your looks. Women have a lot of different preferences and your “looks” go into that mix. Some woman may make it 90% of the mix, some women may make it 30% of the mix.

      The quality of photos is something anyone can improve. Get a nice professional photo shoot if you don’t have any decent quality images.

      What’s more unattractive? A guy that has crappy photos and doesn’t have the motivation to get off his couch and do anything about it? Or a guy that makes an effort? What’s even more unattractive than having bad photos is a shallow guy with bad values.


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Radio Wright is the eDatingDoc - Online Dating Expert. Radio graduated valedictorian with a degree in engineering and for 8 years specialized in huge multi-million dollar construction projects. Because his job left him with little time, he decided to try online dating to meet a great girl but failed. Not for long - the same habit of breaking down complex systems learned in engineering, went into figuring out the much simpler online dating. The eDatingDoc was born. Radio now specializes in assisting guys like you get better online dating results so you can start having fun with exactly the type of women you're looking for.