How to Kiss a Crazy Ass Girl with APF. Week #8 of the 150 Date Challenge

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This is how to kiss a crazy chic.

So I’m ordering my drink, I look back at my ridiculously hot date and she has the APF. What IS the APF you may be thinking. Well it’s the Angry Pirate Face. She says, “Why were you looking at the bartender like that? You were practically drooling on yourself.” I thought she was kidding – she’s not.

She starts giving me shit. (Remember this is our 1st date. I just met this girl and hour before.) She’s acting ridiculous so why not do the same PLUS I wanted her to shut up. Guess what I do? I kiss her! 

I pull back and look at her. I see the coolest range of emotion quickly wash across her face as she tries to compute what I just did. It starts with complete shock then anger then astonishment then excitement. I see a little smirk of a smile. I see what she’s thinking. “That was unexpected and ballsy and I like it.” I kiss her again.

Hold up! Here is this week’s 150 Date Challenge Breakdown:

Initial Emails Sent:
okCupid – 4 – 5
eHarmony – 3
Plenty of Fish – 0

Phone Numbers Received:
okCupid – 4 – 0
eHarmony – 2
Plenty of Fish – 0

1st Dates:
okCupid – 2 – 2
eHarmony – 1
Plenty of Fish – 0

Total Dates this week: 5

This week’s Date Spotlight:


Age: 26

Height: 5’5”

Ethnicity: Hispanic from Cuba

  • What I liked:
    Her looks, that’s about it. Well, now that I think about it, I actually kinda liked the drama she caused in the beginning. After the initial nutso speed bump, the date ended up being fun and we had a great time.
  • What I didn’t like:
    She was fu#%ing nuts! I mean, I wasn’t paying any attention to the damn bartender. The bartender WAS cute so maybe my date had some confidence issues or she just wanted to entertain herself by giving me shit. I don’t know.
  • What I learned:
    We have the ability to create our reality. If we’re fun and confident and know what we’re after. We start to mold our reality. Some girls will be like, “I want to be in his world” & jump right in. Ohhh & Girls dig confidence. Of course I already knew this but it’s just one more leg holding up the belief table.

    I recently heard Sasha Daygame say this: “Confidence isn’t something that can be taught. It’s the sum total of your experiences.” I completely agree. What I CAN tell you how to start getting confidence though. If you want to do something and you feel uncomfortable & scared…DO IT ANYWAY!

What are your thoughts about this date? I’d like to hear them. To any of the girls reading this. Did I deserve a slap? Do you guys think I handled it well?

The adventures will continue next week!

  • Sasha Daygame December 24, 2011, 12:32 am

    Good times. Escalation is often the problem solver. Hang on – I say that about confidence! You totally got that from me!! 😛


    • Radio Wright January 28, 2012, 1:23 am

      I did get that from you Sasha!

  • Chris Hood January 26, 2012, 12:24 am


    • Radio Wright January 28, 2012, 1:22 am

      lol Thanks Chris!

  • Sean February 11, 2014, 5:56 am

    Dude, no real pics, ever? I mean… honestly if you dont post some real pics, who is to say you arent just writing this up, or cutting and pasting it. Just like we fool the girls, maybe you are fooling us? Why no pics? Why not just put a black bar over her eyes? Why no selfies? Tell her you are doing a dating blog and need pic. I mean… shit you are 4 for 4 bating .1000 on OKC getting numbers. An expert like you cant get a few pics? Man up and show us punks how its done!

    • Radio Wright March 24, 2014, 4:48 pm

      Yo Sean, I feel it shows a lack of confidence when I see a guy always posting photos with different girls as though he bases his value on the quality of the girl he’s with. I don’t.

      It’s also a little douchey in my opinion. However, I know what you’re saying and in one of my upcoming reports requires the photo of the model I went on a few dates with, so I’ll include several photos in that post but that will be an exception. I’ll send you a few photos now though in the name of openness. Comment back here if you get them, not sure if this email address you left will work. (Who uses AOL?)

      Update: Seans email address didn’t work – the email bounced back.