How to Kiss a Crazy Ass Girl with APF ★ Week #8 of the 150 Date Challenge

by Radio Wright

So I’m ordering my drink, I look back at my ridiculously hot date and she has the APF. What IS the APF you may be thinking. Well it’s the Angry Pirate Face. She says, “Why were you looking at the bartender like that? You were practically drooling on yourself.” I thought she was kidding – she’s not.

She starts giving me shit. (Remember this is our 1st date. I just met this girl and hour before.) She’s acting ridiculous so why not do the same PLUS I wanted her to shut up. Guess what I do? I kiss her! 

I pull back and look at her. I see the coolest range of emotion quickly wash across her face as she tries to compute what I just did. It starts with complete shock then anger then astonishment then excitement. I see a little smirk of a smile. I see what she’s thinking. “That was unexpected and ballsy and I like it.” I kiss her again.

Hold up! Here is this week’s 150 Date Challenge Breakdown:

Initial Emails Sent:
okCupid – 4
Match.com – 5
eHarmony – 3
Plenty of Fish – 0

Phone Numbers Received:
okCupid – 4
Match.com – 0
eHarmony – 2
Plenty of Fish – 0

1st Dates:
okCupid – 2
Match.com – 2
eHarmony – 1
Plenty of Fish – 0

Total Dates this week: 5

This week’s Date Spotlight:

Melissa

Age: 26

Height: 5’5”

Ethnicity: Hispanic from Cuba

  • What I liked:
    Her looks, that’s about it. Well, now that I think about it, I actually kinda liked the drama she caused in the beginning. After the initial nutso speed bump, the date ended up being fun and we had a great time.
  • What I didn’t like:
    She was fu#%ing nuts! I mean, I wasn’t paying any attention to the damn bartender. The bartender WAS cute so maybe my date had some confidence issues or she just wanted to entertain herself by giving me shit. I don’t know.
  • What I learned:
    We have the ability to create our reality. If we’re fun and confident and know what we’re after. We start to mold our reality. Some girls will be like, “I want to be in his world” & jump right in. Ohhh & Girls dig confidence. Of course I already knew this but it’s just one more leg holding up the belief table.

    I recently heard Sasha Daygame say this: “Confidence isn’t something that can be taught. It’s the sum total of your experiences.” I completely agree. What I CAN tell you how to start getting confidence though. If you want to do something and you feel uncomfortable & scared…DO IT ANYWAY!

What are your thoughts about this date? I’d like to hear them. To any of the girls reading this. Did I deserve a slap? Do you guys think I handled it well?

The adventures will continue next week!

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  • Sasha Daygame

    Good times. Escalation is often the problem solver. Hang on – I say that about confidence! You totally got that from me!! :P

    -Sasha

    • Radio Wright

      I did get that from you Sasha!

  • Chris Hood

    Brilliant

    • Radio Wright

      lol Thanks Chris!

  • O4fuxsakes

    cool so you sexually assaulted someone 

  • O4fuxsakes

    you clearly sexually assaulted this woman. that would explain “the coolest range of emotion” that “wash[ed] across her face” she was trying to emotionally process an assault. also way to remove my first comment. i’m going to keep posting this until you address it. 

    • Radio Wright

      We’ve got trolls afoot!

      Big fugly trolls.

      How do most first kisses happen?

      The guy leans in, and kisses the girl.

      What does a girl do when a guy leans in but she doesn’t want to kiss just yet?

      She turns her head.

      Miss APF had all the time in the world to turn her head but didn’t.

      I’m not gonna name any names but someone cough* (O4fuxsakes) cough* needs a hug.

      • O4fuxsakes

        you are a self aggrandizing rape coach. women are not rubik’s cubes
        that you can operate a series of maneuvers on for a set result. also
        just so you know, your content is being posted all over the internet
        so that women can avoid scumbags like yourself and any desperate
        products of your cheesy material. the content you’ve offered is
        pathetic and mediocre, and even without having seen it plastered all
        over innumerable profiles on dating sites already, it is completely
        transparent, comes across as canned, calculated, and uninteresting.

        on a somewhat unrelated note i’m really surprised that you graduated
        valedictorian as you seem to be unable to write clearly even in your
        incredibly dumbed down material.

      • O4fuxsakes

        also i am a troll but i’m not fugly i’m pretty sure i’m what your people would describe as an HB8. an HB6 at the very least. hope that helps. but please continue to describe women in derogatory terms such as these. once i get past the sexism (which is easy to do as a societal bombardment with it has numbed me) it is pretty hilarious. 

        • Radio Wright

          Ohh you’re a girl? 

          Well a troll isn’t a derogatory term for women. 

          Troll:
          One who posts a deliberately provocative message to a newsgroup ormessage board with the intention of causing maximum disruption and argument.Thanks for all your great energy btw.

          • O4fuxsakes

            aww you took down the rape coach thing. that was funny. i will say again that **women are not rubik’s cubes that you can perform a series of maneuvers on for set results** too, because that is important for your impressionable readers to see. you keep editing this to try and make yourself look better, which is done in vain my friend, because this entire website makes you look pretty bad. 
            also i know what a troll is dummy how could i simultaneously be a ‘troll’ as it applies to looks and an HB8? come on now, aren’t you like an engineer or something? you know what are derogatory terms for women though? “angry pirate face”, “fugly”, and “f&&king nuts!” 

    • AG30

      Wowee 04fuxsakes

      Sexual assault is kind of a big conclusion to jump to don’t you
      think? Can any of us know what’s going on inside someone’s head? You can
      say she was processing sexual assault just as easily as I can say she
      was naming their future children. lol

      Either way, all we can do is know someone’s actions. If they kissed
      again and she kissed back it might seem to some like she was having fun
      (not to mention they were at the bar of a crowded place). Of course, I
      understand it would be easy for you 04fuxsakes to say maybe after being assaulted she was in dreadfully horrific fear for her life (in that crowded bar), and scared to
      death to contradict his actions. You have to admit, neither of us
      really knows. All we can know are their actions in their specific
      circumstances.

      When we draw very large conclusions based on very little
      information(especially without even asking for it) it speaks more to the
      commenter and their specific perspective on life than to Radio or
      Melissa’s thought process.

      I’d at least want to ask how the rest of the date went before I
      jumped to conclusions like sexual assault though. Wouldn’t you?
      Otherwise people might start jumping to conclusions about your thought
      process and perspective. Though I’m guessing your intentions are good
      04fuxsakes.

      Comments aside, I think the story of the date was a well-intended
      lesson in self-confidence. Something I’ve rarely found to be a bad thing
      (when dating or otherwise). I think most people see it that way (though
      of course I can’t be certain).

      All the Best,
      Ben

  • AG30

    Wowee.

    Sexual assault is kind of a big conclusion to jump to don’t you think? Can any of us know what’s going on inside someone’s head? You can say she was processing sexual assault just as easily as I can say she was naming their future children. lol Either way, all we can do is know someone’s actions. If they kissed again and she kissed back it might seem to some like she was having fun (not to mention they were at the bar of a crowded place). Of course I understand it would be easy for you to say maybe she was in dreadful fear for her life and scarred to death to contradict his actions, but you have to admit neither of us really knows. All we can know are their actions.

    I’d at least want to ask how the rest of the date went before I jumped to conclusions like sexual assault though. Wouldn’t you 04fuxsakes? Otherwise people might start jumping to conclusions about your thought process and perspective. I’m guessing your intentions are good though.

    Comments aside, I think the story of the date was a well-intended lesson in self-confidence. Something I’ve rarely found to be a bad thing (when dating or otherwise). I think most people see it that way (though of course I can’t be certain).

    All the Best

  • boyjenius

    Wow, I seriously thought shit was about to go down when you kissed her. I guests that was the right move for her. Props dude lol

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