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Met up with a Ukrainian model for a first date but this wasn’t a normal “date”. I broke my own first date rule. A first date should always be between you and her. Not you going to meet up with her and a group of her friends.
I made this mistake before and it didn’t go well.
When you meet up with a group, her attention will not be focused on you. This will not be a good environment to really get to know each other.
We met up at a the nightclub called Chateau in Las Vegas. She was with 2 other models; one from Moldova and the other Russian.
I get there first. I’m being extra social and befriended a large group from Pennsylvania with several cute women in the group.
When my date got there I introduced her to the group & let her know I just met them. (In the PUA game this is called social proof, pre-selection all that good stuff.) I’m at a point where I don’t really care about that. I was looking to enjoy my night out and meeting new people is how I do that. I’m just aware of the implications of what I’m doing and how this affects my date’s view of me.
So I talk with my date for about 5 minutes then she gets called away for a contest on stage. When she’s done we chat again for about 20 minutes then she gets called back to the contest.
I go back to the Pennsylvania group and party with them (They were crazy!)
That’s how the night ends. I don’t see the Ukrainian model any more that night.
However…. I know she’s interested.
Why?
Because we’ve already been on a 2nd date. (And a crazy date it was. I’ll write about that next time.)
I keep getting asked to show the kinds of women I meet online so here are a few more photos of her. I don’t usually post photos of my dates because I just don’t think it’s a cool thing to do. But I understand since I teach this stuff then you want to see what’s going on. She seems like a pretty cool girl, here she is:
And here are this weeks 150 Date Challenge Details:
| Dating Sites: | First Emails Sent: | Phone Numbers: | 1st Dates: |
| okCupid | 2 | 1 | 0 |
| Match.com | 3 | 2 | 1 |
| eHarmony | 4 | 4 | 2 |
| Plenty of Fish | 0 | 0 | 0 |
If you’re interested, this is how I message women on eHarmony.
Total dates this week: 3
This week’s Date Spotlight:
Katya
Age: 27
Height: 5’9”
Ethnicity/Country: Ukrainian
- What I liked:
She’s beautiful and has a cute accent, but other than that I didn’t learn much about her. - What I didn’t like:
I didn’t get to know her, so I have no idea. We didn’t really spend much time talking because, just as I thought would happen, she was preoccupied with her girlfriends and this contest they were all participating in. - What I did wrong:
I drank a little too much. I was waaaaay too tipsy. DAMN YOU TEQUILA! I also broke my own first date rule; Never meet up with a girl and her friends for a first date. - What I did right:
Even though this wasn’t an ideal first date situation I made it work. I didn’t mess anything up. I was having fun, being social and non-needy.So if you do find yourself in a less than optimal first date situation like I did here, the best thing to do is to just be social; engage her friends in a fun friendly way & socialize with other people if your date is occupied by her friends.
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