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My eHarmony Date With This Ukrainian Model: Date #74 of the 150 Date Challenge

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If you’re new here then you can see the rules of my 150 Date Challenge here.

Met up with a Ukrainian model for a first date but this wasn’t a normal “date”. I broke my own first date rule. A first date should always be between you and her. Not you going to meet up with her and a group of her friends.

I made this mistake before and it didn’t go well.

When you meet up with a group, her attention will not be focused on you. This will not be a good environment to really get to know each other.

We met up at a the nightclub called Chateau in Las Vegas. She was with 2 other models; one from Moldova and the other Russian.

I get there first. I’m being extra social and befriended a large group from Pennsylvania with several cute women in the group.

When my date got there I introduced her to the group & let her know I just met them. (In the PUA game this is called social proof, pre-selection all that good stuff.) I’m at a point where I don’t really care about that. I was looking to enjoy my night out and meeting new people is how I do that. I’m just aware of the implications of what I’m doing and how this affects my date’s view of me.

So I talk with my date for about 5 minutes then she gets called away for a contest on stage. When she’s done we chat again for about 20 minutes then she gets called back to the contest.

I go back to the Pennsylvania group and party with them (They were crazy!)

That’s how the night ends. I don’t see the Ukrainian model any more that night.

However…. I know she’s interested.


Because we’ve already been on a 2nd date. (And a crazy date it was. I’ll write about that next time.)

I keep getting asked to show the kinds of women I meet online so here are a few more photos of her. I don’t usually post photos of my dates because I just don’t think it’s a cool thing to do. But I understand since I teach this stuff then you want to see what’s going on. She seems like a pretty cool girl, here she is:

eHarmony Date with Model

And here are this weeks 150 Date Challenge Details:


150 Date Challenge Progress

Dating Sites: First Emails Sent: Phone Numbers: 1st Dates:
okCupid 2 1 0 3 2 1
eHarmony 4 4 2
Plenty of Fish 0 0 0

If you’re interested, this is how I message women on eHarmony.

Total dates this week: 3

This week’s Date Spotlight:

Age: 27
Height: 5’9”
Ethnicity/Country: Ukrainian

  • What I liked:
    She’s beautiful and has a cute accent, but other than that I didn’t learn much about her.
  • What I didn’t like:
    I didn’t get to know her, so I have no idea. We didn’t really spend much time talking because, just as I thought would happen, she was preoccupied with her girlfriends and this contest they were all participating in.
  • What I did wrong:
    I drank a little too much. I was waaaaay too tipsy. DAMN YOU TEQUILA! I also broke my own first date rule; Never meet up with a girl and her friends for a first date.
  • What I did right:
    Even though this wasn’t an ideal first date situation I made it work. I didn’t mess anything up. I was having fun, being social and non-needy.

    So if you do find yourself in a less than optimal first date situation like I did here, the best thing to do is to just be social; engage her friends in a fun friendly way & socialize with other people if your date is occupied by her friends.

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  • Wayne

    You’re amazing. I’m working on getting my life together and inner game stuff. When it’s time to get dating, you’re my first stop. So, don’t go ANYWHERE!

    • Radio Wright

      Ha! Well Thanks Wayne. Glad to hear you’re own a self-improvement mission. Don’t stop! I sent you an email btw.

  • Randy Flynn

    Great information Radio Wright. Currently I am mostly focused on basic social skills (some well-meaning idealists stifled my fun side when I was young.) I am willing to do anything (within ethical boundaries) to become more social and I have been having difficulty engaging in casual conversations in a way that other people find fun and interesting. I have no problem with going out and doing lots of practice, but I feel like that everything that I try doesn’t work out – it was just one more failure. So I am unsure of the right way to practice. Any Suggestions?



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Radio Wright is the eDatingDoc - Online Dating Expert. Radio graduated valedictorian with a degree in engineering and for 8 years specialized in huge multi-million dollar construction projects. Because his job left him with little time, he decided to try online dating to meet a great girl but failed. Not for long - the same habit of breaking down complex systems learned in engineering, went into figuring out the much simpler online dating. The eDatingDoc was born. Radio now specializes in assisting guys like you get better online dating results so you can start having fun with exactly the type of women you're looking for.